The unglamorous half of a destination wedding — flights, shuttles, marriage paperwork, imported vendors and welcome bags — handled in the order it actually needs to happen.
Choose the location by airport, not by photo
Guest attendance tracks travel friction almost perfectly. One connection and a drive under ninety minutes keeps most of your list intact; two connections costs you roughly a third of it.
Before you fall for a villa, check hotel supply within twenty minutes, whether taxis or shuttles exist at night, and what a guest does with the day before and the morning after.
Build the travel plan before the save-the-dates
Hold a hotel block at two price points — one comfortable, one generous — and put both on a wedding website with a travel FAQ before anything is mailed. Guests booking blind is how you end up with fifteen separate arrival times.
Publish arrival and departure windows. Ask for flight details at RSVP so the shuttle schedule builds itself.
Local vendors versus imported vendors
Import the two people whose work you will look at forever — usually photographer and, if it matters to you, hair and makeup. Everything else is cheaper, faster and more reliable local.
Budget for the import properly: flights, two to three nights of lodging, ground transport and a travel day fee. It is normally $2,000 to $4,500 per imported vendor.
Paperwork and the legal ceremony
Italy, Greece, France and Mexico each require their own documents — apostilled birth certificates, certified translations and in-person appointments. Most processes take 60 to 90 days and cannot be rushed.
The clean workaround is a legal ceremony at home and a symbolic one at the destination. Either way, start the paperwork three months out.
Guest flow on the wedding day
Shuttles in waves, not one bus. Water and shade at the ceremony. A printed schedule in the welcome bag for the guests who never opened the website. A named point person who is not you.
Every destination wedding lives or dies on transportation timing. Build the shuttle schedule backwards from the ceremony, then add fifteen minutes.
Who runs all of this
This is the work planning and coordination packages exist for, and it is also why some couples choose an all-inclusive package at a partnered venue — one contract instead of nine, in a place that already knows how to move 120 guests.
How we can help
- Planning & Coordination PackagesFull planning from $6,500, partial from $4,200, day-of coordination from $1,800.
- All-Inclusive Wedding PackagesOne customizable package covering venue, food, bar, florals and coordination — starting at $9,995.
- The Ivory Guide DIY KitsPlan it yourself with our templates, checklists and vendor lists — from $295.


